LOL – I found this posted on social media, couldn’t resist…
For the “nice guys” who are friend zoned: The UGLY TRUTH about some difficult or too intelligent women.
1. You can sit and listen to their problems and even be non-judgemental and cool which they LOVE. They still won’t sleep with you.
2. You can come over when they need you after a tumultuous argument with their ex. They still won’t flirt with you.
3. You can be entertaining and corny and intelligent when they bash their ex and they even enjoy your humor. Still, they won’t grab you.
4. You can compliment them, tell them they’re wonderful, hot, and any dude who passes them up is a douchebag, they will stare at you with a death look and say, “That is not YOUR job to say that to me. It’s his job.”
Yeah, we can be despicable like that. But if we never were attracted to you in the first place, we will never be. Our bodies have made that decision long long ago.
Give it up. Either decide to be ‘friend zone’ forever, or just bow out now, gracefully and go away. Your presence here is from this point forward friends only; no benefits.
But then, there’s the other side, the friends who really are absolutely amazing and you know who you are. You’re the one we call when we want to talk, and know you’ll listen. You’re that guy! If you are… You’re in luck. There’s still hope.
Your dating life can be improved by knowing the value of who you’re dating. If you’re stuck in a rut, dating the same kind of uninteresting people all the time, perhaps you need to shift gears and find a better pool of date-able persons?
Common sense and education matter. If you’re still searching the work place or the coffee shops, perhaps your limited access is the problem. Scout around a bit and find better meeting places. Match dot com just won’t do.
Spousal abuse, shocking murder /suicide mysteries, and other horror stories can come from the dating game played on Craigslist, and other random sites, but you do have better options. Aunt Nellie probably has a friend who has someone they can hook you up with, if you’ll just ask. If all else fails, join the Republican Party and show up at watch groups, and other organized events… Plenty of single men there!
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